4 Ways To Overcome The Fear Of Chasing Your Dreams

 

4 Ways To Overcome The Fear Of Chasing Your Dreams

Hi guys! How have you been? Hope you guys had a relaxing weekend. Today I want to talk about about 4 Ways To Overcome The Fear Of Chasing Your Dreams. We all have dreams… it can be something like aiming for a position at a particular company, travel the world, start a online shop, create a product, publish a book etc.

I’ve always been a dreamer. It’s what has kept me motivated and eager to work hard to be a step closer to whatever dreams I have at the moment. Chasing your dreams can be terrifying because to be honest, they’re so damn good hahah. All jokes aside, I also know that some dreams require some sacrifices like quitting your 9 to 5 job or moving to city where you have to start a completely new life. Sometimes I like to have conversations about this topic with my family, friends and colleagues. From those conversations, all you will hear are brilliant, exciting ideas that we want to pursue yet when it comes down to the question of ”so what are you waiting for?!” we remain silent. My main obstacle for chasing certain dreams have been because of fear. Fear of failure, fear of uncertainty, fear to take risks. I’m not fully there yet however I can say that I have I learned to get over fear in order to make things happen in my life. For example, creating this blog 6 years ago, launching my first eBook, starting a YouTube channel, moving to countries solo and many more. If I kept on to those fears I wouldn’t have accomplished some of the dreams that I had. So here are 4 Ways that have helped me Overcome The Fear Of Chasing My Dreams.

4 Ways To Overcome The Fear Of Chasing Your Dreams

4 Ways To Overcome The Fear Of Chasing Your Dreams

1. Give yourself a chance to get out of your comfort zone

I start with this because it’s soooooo important. I talk to so many people who want to do/start something or take the next step but aren’t willing or are simply frighten by the idea of leaving their comfort zone. Great things don’t happen when you stay in your comfort zone. Be willing and open-minded to explore and discover more than you know right now.

2. Don’t let opinions determine your path #zerofcksgiven

People will always have an opinion about what you want to do or what your plans are. Your friends, family and people around you will share their opinion. It can happen that a lot wouldn’t really get the idea or will talk you out of it. Listen, if you’ve dreamed about something for so long and you know the timing is right, go for it. I’ve had people question my ideas and dreams as well. I remember that there was a time that I let it affect every decision that I would make. Simply because I let their opinion weigh more than my own feelings, thoughts and decisions. As soon as I took a different approach I’ve seen great things happening in my life. By a different approach I mean not letting every single opinion that I receive determine my path of pursuing my dreams.

4 Ways To Overcome The Fear Of Chasing Your Dreams

3. Yes failure can happen. Don’t let it scare you.

Another thing that helps to overcome the fear of chasing your dreams is accepting the fact that failure can happen. Look I understand, No one wants to fail, but in chasing dreams the possibility of failure is there. And in this process we shouldn’t even use the world failure, we call it ”experience”. A lot of people are scared to chase after a dream because of the fear of failure or not succeeding while a lot have been sacrificed for it. If you think about it, how many successful people are out there who succeeded immediately from the bottom? Failure is not something you should be scared of but rather learn from it if it happens. You’ll come out of it stronger than you’ve even imagined.

4. Surround yourself with striving people 

This is something so amazing and fun! I personally love to be around people who are full of ideas and dreams that they want to pursue are even already pursuing. These conversations and hanging around people like that will motivate you even more to work harder. It also gives a feel of comfort. It gives you the feeling hat you’re not alone and that there are other people out there too who are willing to step out of their comfort zone to make things happen. It can be inspiring and motivating. It opens a lot of doors as well, such as collaborations or idea swapping. Let’s say you are talking to a person who is working his/her way up to be a photographer and you want to be a fashion blogger, you can already talk about collaborations that both of you can do that will benefit both of you.

4 Ways To Overcome The Fear Of Chasing Your Dreams

So those were my 4 tips on how to overcome the fear of chasing your dreams. So tell me, have you ever been afraid before to go after your dreams? Leave your comments down below.

13 Comments

  1. 21st August 2017 / 11:47 am

    You are right. Fear of failure is the biggest hindrance for our dreams to see the daylight. A lot of patience and support from our loved ones is required along with our hard work to succeed in life.

  2. 21st August 2017 / 2:51 pm

    Your advice is spot on! I knew that big changes were in order if I wanted to chase (and achieve) my dream. But some of the changes were a little terrifying, especially when I tortured myself with “what ifs”. But just as you advise, I left my comfort zone, ignored what anyone else thought, and am now in the middle of trial and error – but without berating myself. Because it’s all about what I’m learning, especially about my resilience. I hope your readers take your advice to heart; it’s an exhilarating journey.

    • Trudy Danso
      21st August 2017 / 6:41 pm

      Carol, thanks for sharing your story! Love to hear how escaping the comfort zone leads to amazing things in people’s lives.

  3. 21st August 2017 / 4:00 pm

    Yes! I’m always frightful to go for something I want. When I created my blog I was going through the emotions like excited, scared, frustrated, and happy. But I try to channel that happiness and excitement to keep me going.

    • Trudy Danso
      21st August 2017 / 6:39 pm

      Yesss I can totally relate with your comment. So how long do you have your blog now?

  4. 21st August 2017 / 4:03 pm

    I can honestly say I really like this post. Great relevant advice.

    • Trudy
      21st August 2017 / 6:38 pm

      Aww thanks so much!

  5. 21st August 2017 / 4:05 pm

    These are great reminders while moving forward. It can be so easy to fall back into your old standard way of thinking. I agree with your idea of surrounding yourself with creative striving people. It’s been so helpful and inspiring for me. Great blog! Thanks for sharing.

  6. 21st August 2017 / 9:15 pm

    I really liked 3 &4. I definitely think that failing fast is the key. It’s going to happen anyway so you might as well get it out the way so you can get better. It’s also important to have a good team around you. Good post!

  7. 21st August 2017 / 9:20 pm

    #zerofcksgiven! I love this as well as your blog! I love how you piece fashion with self-development!

    Great post! P.S. I’m subscribing.

    xx- Christe

    http://www.ChristieKu.com

  8. 21st August 2017 / 10:19 pm

    #1 is everything Trudy. I live my dreams – and continue to expand these suckers LOL – because I have and continue to develop the skill of being comfortable with being uncomfortable. This takes time to get down cold. The old me sprinted away from my dreams because the path to being free seemed hyper scary and highly uncomfortable. The new me has learned if you follow your fun that your loving, generous, inspired energy will pull you through uncomfortable areas, well outside of your comfort zone. I love this message 🙂

  9. 29th August 2017 / 7:40 pm

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    • Trudy Danso
      29th August 2017 / 8:41 pm

      Heya! Are you still having problems with seeing the pictures on the blog?

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